IF YOU ARE INITIATING THE DATE, DO THE ASKING IN ADVANCE. Asking someone on a Thursday evening to meet up for Thursday night drinks is not a date.
A PROPER INVITATION: Make sure that you actually show some interest and intention into the asking. Saying “let’s catch up for drinks sometimes” is not showing interest for an actual first date but it says “ not really sure if I like you yet but I would like to keep you on the side until I get some spare time to waste and when I do I expect you to be available at a texts notice”.
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